Giving erotic massages to your partner is an art in itself. Follow these basic guidelines for a sensuous experience you’ll remember:
o Get the setting right- this means phones that are switched off, candle lit rooms, some incense sticks and soul stirring music. Keep some scented lubricants handy-oil based ones are the best.
o If you are doing this for the first time, you need to communicate freely with your partner about what feels right! Explore and encourage your partner to tell you what feels good. Find out whether he likes a harder touch or a break at times. All this will help him to turn up the heat!
o Make sure you have decided on the question of sex beforehand. If your partner is just looking for some relaxation and you are looking for sex afterwards, it could be embarrassing for both of you.
o Start by focusing on your partner’s body. Begin by giving a relaxing full service massage massage. Be sensitive and gentle on his body. You will also need to maintain a steady rhythm and be in constant contact with his body.
o Massage the whole body gently. You can turn him over and start from his chest and then go on to his thighs. Touch his genitals briefly; you can even tease the area by gently massaging the inner thighs. If you are doing this for the first time, maintain eye contact when you are massaging his genitals.
o The primary principle of an erotic massage is to slow down or stop when you know an ejaculation is coming. Encourage him to let you know when this is about to happen. The repeated climaxes without ejaculation will help him get multiple orgasms also.
o Read up on techniques like the anvil stroke, doorknob and double whammy, so that you can be as good as a pro.
Remember to concentrate on the most pleasurable parts of his body. This is the most important part of the erotic massage.
Pekkie Aon was a former socialite who used to coach female social escorts in Thailand. Now, she has turned the tables and is teaching men the secrets of female seduction. To date, she has more than 500 male clients in Thailand alone.